How To Avoid A False Rape Accusation

by Featured Guest on December 12, 2012

By Frost

The Manosphere needs more anecdotes, more stories, and more dramatic gravitas, says WF Price. I’m inclined to agree, so here’s the heartwarming tale of how 18 year old Frost evaded his first ever false rape accusation.

Our story begins on a chilly autumn evening in the residence halls of a typical North American university. The night was like any other Friday, Saturday, Thursday, Monday or Wednesday in my life at the time: Good friends, cheap drinks, and shenanigans galore.

At one point in the evening, I made the acquaintance of a lovely young lady. Within an hour or two, we drunkenly recognized each other as soul mates and made sweet sweet love in her dorm room. We exchanged numbers, I stumbled back to my own room as the sun came up, and all was well.

The next week, we repeated the exercise, but with a twist. The morning after, she asked me – or more accurately, she naively communicated her expectation to me – that, well, of course I was now her exclusive, monogamous boyfriend.

Eighteen year old Frost was, surprisingly, an even worsehuman being than the current version. Rather than let her down gently, I laughed in her face and said hell no, not a chance, not in this lifetime. She asked me to leave.

The next day, she discussed the matter with her “don” – basically a sophomore babysitter assigned to live among the freshmen, hug them when they miss home, and hold their hair back when they need to vomit out a gallon of boxed wine. The dons are generally the sort who are afraid to leave residence for their second year. But, mostly, they aren’t such terrible people.

Let me give you a clearer picture of this one though:

She was a stumpy, ugly, pasty little rat of a human being. She walked with a feigned limp, which we occasionally caught her forgetting to put on. She claimed to be a Native American, although she looked as generically European as they come. She claimed to be a lesbian, but how such a cold, bitter human could ever feel or receive love is beyond me. Her greatest achievement in life, as measured by how often she bragged about it, was that she was a member of five separate oppressed minority groups – woman, cripple, lesbian, minority, and apparently one other that we, in all our privilege, never discovered.

So my erstwhile lady friend went to have a nice little talk about her feelings with this fine specimen of humanity – let’s call her Jizz – and launched a lovely sequence of events.

Over the next month, completely without my knowledge, Jizz tapped into her network of on-campus Social Justice Warrior Harridans, Manginas and White Knights. Together, they repeatedly confronted the girl, and brought the full-court press on to convince her that she had been raped. They harassed her all year, brought in counselors, staged interventions, and basically did everything they could to convince this girl that, since we had hooked up and she had later come to regret it, I deserved to spend 20+ years in jail.

There is only one thing that saved me from that fate, and that is that this girl was a decent human being who recognized that while I was indeed a dick, I didn’t deserve to have my life ruined. A weak girl would have caved to the peer pressure. A stupid girl would have succumbed to Jizz’s solipsistic logic. A petty, venal girl would have capitalized on the opportunity to exact revenge on the man who had spurned her.

Fortunately she was none of these, and I’m a free man.

But how many eighteen year old girls have that kind of character? Reason and justice are male values. Women are social, emotional creatures. Surround them with people saying the same thing, and many will crack. The typical female western college student is immersed in a tight network of angry feminists who are all too happy to use them as a means of imprisoning men. I imagine this is a pretty common situation. Most colleges are full of professional feminazi social justice warriors. Most colleges are chock-full of drunken, regrettable hookups. In this case, my entire life came down to the willingness of the one person who had the power to do the right thing, doing exactly that. I wonder how many men weren’t so lucky.

So make no mistake, readers of a fornicating temperament, college students especially: The threat of a false rape accusation is real: Fortunately, by taking a few simple precautions, an intelligent man can greatly limit his exposure to this particular risk:

1) Send A Good Feelings Confirmation Text.

Ideally, the minute she walks out your door.

“Damn. Still thinking about (whatever).”

“Dayum girl you rocked that shiz last night.”

“(Reference to stupid inside joke that came up at some point in the evening)”

Not only is this arguably solid post-bang comfort-maintenance, buyer’s remorse-reduction game, a positive response from her will be a major chink in any bogus future hypothetical legal case against you.

2) Don’t Be A Dick

Banging a drunk chick, pressuring a reticent girl into sex, pumping and dumping a girl after promising her that you’ll love her to the end of time – none of these are in anywhere near the same moral ballpark as actual, legitimate rape. But they are still dick moves, like littering in a forest or double-parking. More importantly, by avoiding dick moves, you keep yourself safe. As fucked up as it is, the law is evolving to the point that regret = rape. Solution: Minimize regret. Don’t bang drunk chicks. Don’t bang chicks that give more than a tiny bit of last-minute resistance. Warm your girl up until she is literally begging you to fuck her.

3) Don’t Bang Feminists

There are so many reasons why this should be a hard and fast rule for every man. Most immediately obvious is that Feminists are ugly, but here’s another one: Decent girls do not make false rape accusations. Sick, evil, damaged, unloved dregs of society – i.e the sort that gravitate towards the social justice warrior mentality – make false rape accusations. If you are going dumpster diving and scraping ugly feminists off the bottom of the barrel just to get laid, you have no one to blame but yourself when you eventually lose that game of Russian Roulette.

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Bottom line: As a man in 21st Century America, you are at risk. There is no way around that, save celibacy – a burden few of us would bear. However, if you’re smart about your dicking around – only sleeping with decent girls, being a decent person back to them, and taking a few other simple precautions – the odds of falling victim to a false rape accusation will be much, much smaller than they would otherwise.

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Bill December 12, 2012 at 11:27

When I was in college I made sure that I stayed far away from feminists. They are pretty easy to spot usually (ugly hair cut which is sometimes died pink or unnatural color, only hangs around girls and gays, and which has a pretty much ” I’m better then you attitude”) these girls just cross off the list automatically. I don’t care now drunk they are or how willing they are, just stay away. Now for sex during college, having a gf is always the safest bet, but if you do hook up with a random stranger, make sure you leave before she wakes up. As long as she was really drunk, she will have a hard time remembering you or what she did last night.

Anyway, the best part of life for me is that I don’t really need to play by the rule I set in college. I can fuck any girl I want (because it travel alot) and can easily disappear if they claim rape. Using game is great if you know how to escape if things turn south (police show up, or rape charge is put on you). Also if you have her number and you know she remembers you, do the txt comfermation the next day to have proof is was not rape so if she changes ether mind, you have some bit of evidence.

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El Bastardo December 12, 2012 at 11:40

Hmmm, I was thinking maybe we could get feminists worked up into a frenzy that is so bad; we might be able to convince them from the background to wear “anti-rape/pro-feminist” merit badges of some kind and video it so they all go on to a “register-her.com” website.

Oh wait; we do! Slut Walks, and register-her.com.

Now all we need to do is make the website much more comprehensive and user friendly. Then convince college campuses the world over to convince our female friends that women who like slut walks should wear a badge; without telling them this makes it easier for our young players in training to know who to avoid at the party?

I wonder how long it will take for them to figure it out?

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Wilson December 12, 2012 at 12:20

Uh, I wouldn’t put anything in writing acknowledging that sex even occurred. ““Dayum girl you rocked that shiz last night” is going to demonstrate a severe lack of remorse after her tearful testimony about how you held a pistol to her head and forced her to perform oral sex.

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Clarence December 12, 2012 at 13:01

Video or audio (or both) recorders of some type, and a requested response via some kind of recorded media where you can get her feelings on the matter are the only protection you are going to have.
The only 100 percent (well, ok 99.9999 percent) way to avoid false rape accusations from women (or anyone really) is to totally abstain from sex and as much as possible stay away from other human beings, esp. women.

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Anon December 12, 2012 at 13:11

How To Avoid A False Rape Accusation ?

Make sure to get payment from THEM in cash or in kind for YOUR sexual attention or favors. Specially from trumped up Euro-Ameriskanks.

A long time buddy always chastised me for showing too much generosity: “Negro, YOU gotta get paid else they get too uppity man”

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Livingwell December 12, 2012 at 13:18

Or pay a pro, get what you want. and consider the cost an investment in your future. Once you start banging women over a certain age, then you can relax a bit and go rogue.

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Uncle Elmer December 12, 2012 at 13:24

I fed my family royally for 5 years through dumpster diving. Please don’t disparage this noble sport.

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Stallywood December 12, 2012 at 13:33

I have a friend who tapes his encounters. I pointed out to him that this is also illegal, but he rightfully replied that the penalty was a lot less severe and less costly in terms of a legal defense. I think he’s also a perv…heheeheh.

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Mike43 December 12, 2012 at 13:54

Over at Dr. Helen’s site, there was a gent who never takes a girl home. He always uses hotels, and those always have security systems.

That way, if she does cry anything, he has at least video of her entering and leaving hotels and with her demeanor on film.

He’s reportedly very single and very rich, so common sense applies as well. He spends more but has a lot to protect.

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keyster December 12, 2012 at 14:43

A guy here in Colorado just got sent up the river for 20 years for raping a woman he met at DIA (airport). Their flight was delayed and they were getting drunk and she followed him to an empty concourse. She claimed the next day she was raped. He insists it was consensual, he’s innocent.

She came out after the trial as the quintessential victim, blah, blah, blah…wants to make sure he can never do this again, etc. and so on.

http://www.9news.com/rss/story.aspx?storyid=290996

The whole scenerio wreaks of “regret sex”.

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Anon December 12, 2012 at 14:51

“”A guy here in Colorado just got sent up the river for 20 years for raping a woman he met at DIA (airport).””

He should’ve got a till receipt from the lascivious ho.

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codebuster December 12, 2012 at 14:57

And among the fostering of good habits is the getting rid of bad ones that might, without you even realizing it, predispose you to more sensible choices:
http://breakingbeta.com/2012/05/09/tedmasturbatingtalk/

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Anonymous December 12, 2012 at 16:08

Interesting story. Sometimes the threat comes from a third party and not from the girl.

My son is a freshman college athlete at an Ivy League school. He has a couple of non-athlete room-mates, one of whom has shown some indications of jealousy of my son in the past.

The jealous room-mate is a beta orbiter of a girl my son has been spending some time with. After a minor incident the beta orbiter was overheard in public trying to persuade the girl she had been a victim of sexual misconduct on the part of my son.

This would be a twofer for the beta orbiter. Destroy my son’s college career while dispatching a perceived rival. Turns out the girl wanted none of it and the last I heard had brought my son some brownies.

But, as I pointed out yet again to my son, it’s no longer about what happened it’s about what SHE SAYS happened. I’m still not sure he gets it.

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joeG December 12, 2012 at 17:13

This might sound hyperbolic, but I think this is one of the greatest posts that I have read in the manosphere. Too often the manosphere is just about the rhetoric. This post identifies a real world problem and then gives a common sense solution that can be disseminated to the masses. I especially love precaution number 1. It is just so timely. I think we should really make a concerted effort to spread the word to young men across the country that they should always send a good feelings confirmation text after sex. Maybe also try to use the Dear Colleague letter from the Obama administration as justification for this new post sex procedure. I think this one simple tactic could garner sincere consideration of men’s rights from the mainstream piblic.

Also the last sentence from anonymous, who has a ivy league son, would make a greater slogan or bumper sticker for the campaign.

“Sex is no longer about what happened, its about what SHE SAYS happened.”

I think we as a community should really push this. what do you guys think?

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joeb December 12, 2012 at 18:02

Don’t leave no dna , Never wipe it off with her certains .denial denial denial . You have the right to stop talking . and some more denial .

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brigadon December 12, 2012 at 19:19

change that to ‘Rape is no longer about what happened, it’s about what SHE SAYS happened” and I am game.

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numnut December 12, 2012 at 21:43

It’s pretty obvious the author nor the current commentators have ever been investigated on a rape charge.

The guys who have been- remain silent,for good reason.

You don’t even have to be in the same county!
They don’t even have to know your name.
Just the color of a vehicle is enough to impune anyone with that color vehicle.
I’ve seen a police department violate the rights of hundreds of people on one accusation.
You guys have No Fucking Idea.

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evilwhitemalempire December 12, 2012 at 22:18

She claimed to be a lesbian, but how such a cold, bitter human could ever feel or receive love is beyond me.
—————
she probably was
you really don’t get this?
she was a don because she was a lesbian and wanted access to other college girls
she tried to send you to prison because she’s jealous and wanted the girl for herself
to feminists men are sexual RIVALS
why is this stuff not more obvious to you guys?

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evilwhitemalempire December 12, 2012 at 22:41

And among the fostering of good habits is the getting rid of bad ones that might, without you even realizing it, predispose you to more sensible choices:
http://breakingbeta.com/2012/05/09/tedmasturbatingtalk/

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as pmaft and others predicted the pussy cartel is attempting to reassert itself with ‘porn desensitizes, makes men not real men any more, unhealthy, etc.’

http://www.antifeministtech.info/2010/09/the-spearhead-theyre-afraid-of-men-masturbating/
“As more sex technologies become available for men in the future there will be more anti-male masturbation shaming language. Some will be religiously based. Medical myths such as masturbation giving a man hairy palms will likely make a reappearance. None of it will be rooted in medical facts, and they will claim that this is only limited to men. Whatever the method of shaming language, it’s all for the same reason, to protect the pussy cartel from competition.”

best description of the porn situation here
http://captaincapitalism.blogspot.com/2012/12/porn-economics.html

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brigadon December 13, 2012 at 03:25

The worst mistake we made is not putting shoes on them, giving them the vote, or teaching them to read… we should never have taught them to talk!

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Joe Zamboni December 13, 2012 at 08:18

Great story Frost, thanks. I suggest not referring to guys who behave badly (whatever that may mean, depending on the value system of the speaker/writer) as “dicks.” It disparages the male member. The male member is to be revered, just as other sexual organs are, such as the breast.

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keyster December 13, 2012 at 08:38

Interesting none of the Masculinist/Gender Separatist types among us have weighed in on this most reasonable advice. I suppose because it just deals with a little harmless pump and dump, and not actually commiting to a full time relationship – which we all know is really a form of slavery…. and if only we could convince a critical mass of young men of this fact, we’d “win”.

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oddsock December 13, 2012 at 10:06

Winehouse boyfriend cleared of rape

“She told investigators she was so drunk she could not stand up. Footage showed her walking freely and unaided with Mr Traviss to get in a taxi to his flat.”

http://celebrity.uk.msn.com/news/winehouse-boyfriend-cleared-of-rape-2

Maybe its just me but I can’t see how a woman that says she was drunk and didn’t know what she was doing is any different from a woman driving a car in the same condition and then explaining to the police she was drunk and didn’t know what she was doing. I mean, surely that excuse has to work in both scenarios or none at all?

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Ted December 13, 2012 at 12:18

A great article by Frost. It would be good if we could also get a criminal trial lawyer with lots of experience defending clients against rape charges to write up a solid list of what to do to protect yourself from false rape accusations. Any trial lawyers out there who’d be willing to do that? How about cops?

There’s this famous video:

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6wXkI4t7nuc

But it’s more general and deals with what to do when the police are already questioning you about a crime.

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greyghost December 13, 2012 at 14:57

This would be and is a great article to post up on bulletine boards at colleges all over the country.

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Ode December 13, 2012 at 15:52

http://breakingbeta.com/2012/05/09/tedmasturbatingtalk/

I smell bull sh!t.
Here’s my theory of what’s really going on. The establishment has tried the religious argument, the feminist argument and both have failed.
So now they are going for the pseudo scientific argument. Notice in the video they toss around big words, and the names of so called experts with PHD degrees, to make it sound convincing.

The pussy cartel is afraid they are losing a monopoly on their most value able commodity. Internet porn is competition which brings down the price of a pussy.

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codebuster December 13, 2012 at 19:27

The pussy cartel is afraid they are losing a monopoly on their most value able commodity. Internet porn is competition which brings down the price of a pussy.

Internet porn and porn in general is an integral part of the feminist industry. Feminism is tied to the emergence of the contraceptive pill and the sexual revolution. It is no accident. There would be no feminism without our contractaceptive technologies.

Ultimately, habitual fappers are as feminist as manginas and white knights. Habitual fappers ARE feminists, only they don’t know it. After you’ve wiped the jiz from your screen, read this carefully. Habitual fappers are far and away feminists’ most useful idiots.

Nature provides an outlet for men that don’t fap. Is it an accident that the frequency of nocturnal emissions for men (about once per month) seems to be roughly equivalent to the frequency of periods for women? It would be interesting to do a study on this.

Watch that clip… notice the women snickering reflexively? They’re snickering at fappers. There’s no amount of speaking out on behalf of fappers’ rights that will alter that reflexive response.

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evilwhitemalempire December 13, 2012 at 22:49

@ Ode
“So now they are going for the pseudo scientific argument. Notice in the video they toss around big words, and the names of so called experts with PHD degrees, to make it sound convincing.”

YES!
they’re filling new wine in the old bottles that said masturbation makes you blind, gives you warts, etc.

@codebuster
“Watch that clip… notice the women snickering reflexively? They’re snickering at fappers. There’s no amount of speaking out on behalf of fappers’ rights that will alter that reflexive response.”

strawman

we don’t need their permission to fap (not yet anyway)

and you think they snicker on instinct? jeeezus h. key-ryst on the f-ing cross! the ONE time you actually say something about females is innate and not learned and you gotta be so waaaay off the mark!?

they snicker to shame and ridicule men because they understand, intuitively, that such mens actions undermine the pussy cartel!

“Internet porn and porn in general is an integral part of the feminist industry.”

historically, feminists have been dead set against porn

it was not until the 90′s, after it became clear to feminists that they couldn’t ban the stuff, that they changed their tune and became so called ‘sex positive’ feminists [sex positive for their own sexuality, still sex negative for ours]
btw in the rad fem circles the anti-porn sentiment still stirs to this day

“Habitual fappers are far and away feminists’ most useful idiots.”

just like starving people are just SOOO much harder to control and manipulate than those who get three squares a day

seriously man, where on earth do you come up with all this 2+2=5 stuff of yours anyway?

first everything is learned and biology isn’t real
http://www.the-spearhead.com/2011/05/15/it-aint-in-the-genes/

now you say that sexually desperate men are better at disagreeing with females

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brigadon December 14, 2012 at 00:54

did you ever notice how those ‘fuck a girl tonight’ sites seem to be almost in direct competition with the fap sites?
That’s because they are.
Frankly, I would be cool with the sites if they did not demand your real life information.
Some of my best friends don’t know my real (legal) name. Why in the hell should I give it to a site which hooks up pump and dumps?

Frankly, I think those sites are dangerous as hell. “Give us your info and we can guarantee a rape conviction while-U-wait! why take your time getting brutalized by the system, we can give you an express ticket to your worst nightmare! please note, law enforcement is given full cooperation at all times and without any warrants.

It’s akin to advertising sponsored by Satan on the upsides of going to hell.

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Nutz December 14, 2012 at 01:21

Simplest solution:

**RECORD EVERYTHING**

Hard to cry rape when she’s caught on (hidden) camera. And I sincerely doubt any DA would risk the political fallout of charging someone for wiretapping or whatnot if the recording vindicates a victim of a false rape accusation. Now THAT would be victim blaming.

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Gilgamesh December 14, 2012 at 15:56

Can anyone here write a prison survival guide tailored for innocent people? That would be helpful in case your precautions fail.

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domestic discipline democrat December 16, 2012 at 04:38

@codebuster:

“…Ultimately, habitual fappers are as feminist as manginas and white knights. Habitual fappers ARE feminists, only they don’t know it. After you’ve wiped the jiz from your screen, read this carefully. Habitual fappers are far and away feminists’ most useful idiots….”

Some habitual wankers are also desperadoes. That doesn’t mean that all men who resort frequently to the hand are under the female thumb.

Part of wisdom is learning to control your own body. Men with high sex drives quickly accumulate stress which has to be relieved. This enables clear thinking.

Many, many negative outcomes can be avoided by a quick session over the sink: depletion of funds, STDs, rape charges, unhappy marriage, unwanted children, abortion, emotional stress…the list is endless.

Internet porn addicts are a somewhat different case, but that has more to do with the screen-mediated disconnect from physical reality than anything else.

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Human-Stupidity.com December 17, 2012 at 09:50

Nice post

I learned a few new tricks that I can add to my articles

Get a lawyer before courting: 34 precautions before risking sex with a woman

@Nutz: In my article recording is among the precautions. there are pitfalls about recording. It might be illegal in itself. Certainly it is illegal if you distribute it, by mistake. So you have to safe guard it.

She might accuse you 5 years later, so you need a complete archive of your recordings. Do you see the complexity.

Equally, notarized consent will not do. You know she can withdraw consent at any time. This is why the recording is needed.

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Human-Stupidity.com December 17, 2012 at 11:03

Does everyone have moderation? or just me? or only because I put one link? Just curious

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AntZ December 17, 2012 at 16:59

“Reason and justice are male values. Women are social, emotional creatures.”

Great story, until I read this.

What are the consequences of this statement?

1) The statement enables false accusers (because it implies that women are genetically unable to speak the truth). Women are not mental cripples, and consequently women must be held accountable when they make false accusations.
2) The statement denigrates all women of character who do NOT abuse the terrible power to strategically invoke violence by proxy. Most women never make false accusations, even though all women have the power to do so, with no consequences … and using this power can frequently solve problems such as inconvenient husbands, inconvenient business partners, inconvenient affairs, and inconvenient indiscretions.
3) The statement absolves government from culpability for giving women 100% consequence free power to destroy any man’s life for any reason or for no reason. If the government were to give white people the power to murder black people at will, the resulting deaths would be the fault of government.
4) Finally, the statement is simply false. While there are likely minor differences between men and women, the ability to think rationally is not one of them.

Sorry, I love your story, but I cannot agree with this statement.

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Craig December 24, 2012 at 03:29

Years ago, Salon magazine interviewed Billy Graham and asked how he avoided the sex scandals and accusations of other televangelists. He replied it’s easy, I never allow myself to be alone with a woman who isn’t my wife or daughter. And it’s true. If he and a strange woman are alone on an elevator, he will leave at the nearest opportunity.

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