Firing On All Cylinders

Young men don’t need to endure anything other than to gain the moral fortitude our forefathers had to leave a bad situation for greener pastures.

Next give up on the training that told you that sacrificing your life for a woman who hates you to steal your children and enslave you is your goal.

Our women are like really small weak dudes but without a sense of humor or sex drive….in fact, there’s profit in relationship destruction and not having sex for women.

Like real estate, women in the US have taken to man flipping….and are doing very well. (I would like to say this is not true but ask any woman who is honest and she’ll tell you feminism was the best thing that ever happened to her and she wouldn’t be able to walk upright if it weren’t for feminism).

Women will not “return to sanity”. They are perfectly sane, they thought this through 40 years ago.

This was a complex plan. The details were published. The lies the plan was based on is still being foisted on us.

There are already places in the world that see what is happening and the opening Ameriskanks have given them to grow their influence in the US to the point of near complete control.

Our politicians admit that international corperations run them through lobbiests, basically legalized corruption…..first at the trough……feminists.

My advice to young men is to realize your society has turned against you, be defensive and take care of yourself, any sacrifice for others will be severly punished.

Very beautiful…
And right on the money.

To quote a Stone Age aphorism: “behind every great man stands a good woman.” This meant, obviously, that for a man to achieve he needed the practical and emotional support of a “good woman” (LOL), so he could focus on his work.

Today, it’s more like this . Instead of a supporter and partner a man’s wife is a relentless competitor in a race to the bottom, to consume all the man’s material and emotional resources before he can use them to productive ends.

Anonymous
Very beautiful…
And equally wrong.

You’re not fooling anybody, Firepoodle. The neurotic compulsion to make the first comment, the negativity, the room temperature emotional intelligence……oh, yeah. Time for another “vacation.” LOL.

Instead of a supporter and partner a man’s wife is a relentless competitor in a race to the bottom, to consume all the man’s material and emotional resources before he can use them to productive ends.

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In other words, a CoWorker.

A man wants a wife, not a CoWorker.

Today’s man gets to spend his days tightly bound by rules to enable his competition – female coworkers. On the commute home he struggles to defend his piece of pavement against the encroachments of yet more female CoWorkers who are foaming at the mouth behind the wheel of their Sissy Utility Vehicles (SUVs). When he arrives home he can look forward to negotiating with his Co-Equal CoWorker Wife over who is assigned to empty the packaged food components into the Micro-Wave and who is assigned cleanup duties. As he tears open the synthetic protein food box he vaguely notices the happy female coworker colored children on the face of the packaging and the claims of empowerment that Encorpera is providing “girls” through donations of laptops and “Facebook” accounts. Over dinner CoWife complains about her shit CoWorkers. When they crawl into bed after watching 3 hours of Co-TV her pussy is dry as a bone because she’s still angry at her male Co-Boss.

This is your dream. This is your nightmare.

“Until then, our young men will be forced to endure the scorn of the banshees and must persevere to advance society in spite of the opposite sex rather than in the cause of our womenfolk.”

Or we turn our attentions entirely to stopping feminism; seeking social and political power for this purpose alone, making it our life’s work.

Craig Himself

“I ain’t gonna lie. The times I’ve had a girlfriend were when I felt most positive, creative and brave. It’s a great feeling.”

Yes, I am sure many of us can identify with the same feelings. Also kept/keeps many of us repeating the same mistakes. The great strength and purpose of the likes of the Spearhead et al is to edumacate men, young /old and globally.

Perhaps the below excerpts from a couple of well known books will be of interest to you and others.

P.s. It is still very painfull to swallow this part of the red pill. We are just like the junky/smack head coming off drugs by going cold turkey.

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Esther Vilar in The Manipulated Man says that the manipulation of men begins when they are born:

Mothers, with some fantasy cut-out in their heads of what boys are like, and suffering from the deficiencies of their husbands, set about to make junior a perfect little man. He is such a “good little boy” when he learns to pee pee inside the round white hole and resists smacking the cat with his toy bulldozer. Mothers love their daughters, but they wax with pride over their sons. They immediately set about trying to make them into everything the husband is not…

The mere fact that a man is accustomed from his earliest years to have women around, to find their presence “normal”, their absence “abnormal”, tends to make him dependent on women later in life. Dad is a character that comes and goes, but mom is the rock in junior’s life. He learns from her that taking directions from women who act like they know what they are doing is normal. It is almost impossible to underestimate the psychological power of this early social dynamic. A man’s whole notion of security and safety throughout life comes from giving himself to this dependent relationship. Like an imprinted gosling he spends his whole life looking for a certain shape to attach himself to.

We spend our marriages trying to wrest the same affirmation from our wives that we got from our moms, way back when, before we could even “think”. Our wives accuse us of trying to get them to mother us and it’s true, we are, that’s how we were trained. I know a phone-sex vendor in Chicago named Valerie Craft who stated unequivocally that her entire business consists in comforting men in the manner of their mothers. Astounding! But not really.

Says Vilar:

“One of the most useful factors in conditioning a man is praise. Its effect is better and much more long-lasting than say, sex, as it may be started early and continued throughout a man’s life. Furthermore, if praise is applied in the correct dosage a woman will never need to scold. Any man who is accustomed to a regular and conditional dosage of praise will interpret its absence as displeasure.”

Most jilted male lovers and husbands have an explosive mental melt-down at their beloved’s infidelities, which is vastly out of proportion to what they are being deprived of. It feels to them as if they are being torn away from their mother’s bodies, and indeed, that’s just what is going on down deep in their psyches. They are losing the basic unit of security, the emotional lifeline ingrained in them when they were still peeing in their pants. That’s why men rage and want to beat people up when their lovers leave them. That’s why most break-ups involve women leaving men rather than men leaving women. Why would a man leave? After years of adolescent drunken degradation and self-abuse he has an hour-glass-shaped praise-giver back in his life again. That’s normal. That’s how it’s supposed to be. That’s what mom showed him.

Says Vilar:

“Training by means of praise has the following advantages: it makes the object of praise dependent (in order for praise to be worth something it has to come from a “higher” source, thus the object of praise exalts the praise-giver to a superior level); it creates an addict (without praise he no longer knows whether or not he is worth something — automatic existential shame — and he forgets the ability to identify with himself); praise increases his productivity (it is most effectively meted out not for the same achievements but for increasingly higher ones). Only mothers and wives, not other men or women, dispense the hugs and praise that men so crave. A boy, like a monkey, will repeat the actions that called forth endearments and, if at any time recognition is not granted, he will do everything in his power, bar nothing, to regain it.”

He will climb mountains or work in coal mines or eat shit, allowing himself, like a junkie, to be totally shamed. And, says Vilar, “the happiness he feels when praise is restored will already have assumed the proportions of an addiction.”

Shame, that deep feeling of worthlessness and helplessness, is precisely the result of withheld praise. Regarding my own mother I’ve always referred to it as “withdrawal of love”. Even now, 43 years after the fact, she can set off an awful, depressing, manic, physical grinding in my stomach simply by withdrawing her love. Clearly she trained me to respond that way eons ago, before I had any sense of how anything works. In its way, it is sheer brutality. Dependency training is like teaching a puppy to come on the word “go” and then sending him off on a walk with a total stranger. The entire phenomenon of praise, and shame, and withdrawal of love is a very distorted garbling of signals imprinted in babies’ heads. God says surrender your ego. Mom says hang onto your ego so I can continue to use it to shame you into doing what I want. Who do you want to believe? God or mom? Do you wonder why so many more men than women drink and abuse drugs?

Here is the substance of addiction. We were strung out on praise early in life and without regular doses of praise we hurt so bad and feel so useless we have to try to kill the pain somehow. Ah, that first glass of beer, that first joint, how it took the pain away!

@ Craig Himself
“I ain’t gonna lie. The times I’ve had a girlfriend were when I felt most positive, creative and brave. It’s a great feeling.”

Craig, I feel you. Being in a good relationship is a great feeling, no doubt.

HOWEVER, the inverse (converse?) comment from a friend of mine is also true and perhaps even more important: “When I look back on my life (45 years now), those two or three times when I was the most miserable in my entire life was entirely because of a woman.”

The lesson: let a woman inside your emotional walls at your own risk. Game can help all men maintain proper frame and perspective with women.

GS Jockey

“A man’s whole notion of security and safety throughout life comes from giving himself to this dependent relationship”.

Good points yet I think it also depends on the individual man. Some men want/need a wife who is very nurturing and maternal, and perhaps dominant. Yet other men are so sick of having endured an overbearing mother (who could be a b*tch when not pleased) that they simply want/need a pleasant supportive wife. Many men have grown up with the mother as the primary or exclusive parent in their life and mostly women teachers especially when young. Some of younger guys who grew up in those environments are wimps and evoke little life energy, strength, or pride in being male. Others are sick to death of women and their female values being vomited on them. Those men are often ghosting and MGTOW in their own way joining fight clubs, playing video games, playing poker with their buds, and keeping women around as f*ck buddies. It is not just women over thirty who can’t find or see men. Even younger women, in their early twenties, these days are asking ‘where have all the men gone’?

Traditionally, a woman who chooses a domineering father type man as a husband is not laughed at by society. However, a man who is in a relationship with a domineering mother-type wife is sneered at by society for being a weakling. Ah, the double-standards in society.

A few more excerpts to consider
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Women love money because they love shopping – power over objects – and they love men who give them the money to have this power.

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Says Vilar: “Once a particular field of work has brought a man success and financial security, it is uncommon for him to test his abilities in another sphere – his supply of praise might be dangerously reduced. Like Miro and his dots-and-lines technique, Johann Strauss and his waltzes, and Tennessee Williams with his plays about psychotic women, he will stick firmly to his successful technique. The risk of him attempting to be the measure of his own success is too great for him to take.”

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When people talk about the “woman who stands behind the man” what they mean is that even if she did not lift one finger to help him, at least she held in check her vast repertoire of tools with which she could have sabotaged his delicate, uncertain, creative leap. It’s not easy for a woman, with limited right brain and no creative disposition, to resist critiquing and manipulating her spouse into more logically productive activity. There are no more than a handful of women alive who can see their way to supporting men’s follies when the paycheck stops coming in.

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A man is generally delighted to find that his wife is taking up painting or weaving or writing because this means that she has less time for shopping or manipulating him, or arranging romantic trysts. Who cares if the dirty dishes pile up? If she’s happy she’s not going to torment him.

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Woman is not a Goddess. She is a breathing bag of protoplasm – spiffed up with pink panties and blue eyeliner. She is earth, not sky. Down, not up. Her children are as much a part of her body as her arms and legs, and when she claims to have sacrificed everything for her family it is akin to saying she did everything she possibly could for her thighs and hips.

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Says Vilar: “Women really are callous creatures – mainly because it is not to their advantage to feel deeply. Feelings might seduce them into choosing a man who is no use to them, i.e., a man who they could not manipulate at will. Listen to the conversation of young lovers in the park. It is ALWAYS about the female trying to convince the male to do, or not do, something. The first thing a woman wants to know is whether she can manipulate the man. That is the beginning of the relationship, the beginning of ‘I love you.’

But she knows, at the same time, that it is absolutely necessary for ‘woman’ to enact the role of a sensitive being, or man would become aware of her essentially cold, calculating nature.”

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Through double-signals, deception, and feistiness women create discord that they expect men to repair, “to show me you love me.” This is not helpless emotionalism; this is analytical manipulation run wild. Baffle them with cowshit. And men, the deep lovers, put up with it.

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Says Vilar: “What an advantage a man would have if he only realized the cold, clear thoughts running through a woman’s head while her eyes are brimming with tears.”

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Women are emotional faucets. A woman can insult the intestines out of her husband, brush on some eyeliner, go to a dinner party, and have a wonderful time, meanwhile leaving the poor man writhing in pain all night. And why does he keep coming back for the abuse? Because he needs the praise that mom taught him to need. And he needs sex.

I was a young Engineer – fresh out of school – in the early 1980′s, and I have clear memories of 5 and 6-level young women attempting to initiate relationships with me at the time.

There was no “game” involved on my part, and in a few cases, I simply went along for the ride. I was seen as a “good catch” at the time – someone with a bright future.

However, even then, there was an awareness on my part that I was being used as a “meal ticket” by these young ladies. Those of us that are old enough will recall that during this period, there was a small company called Microsoft – – headed by a geeky-looking young guy named Bill Gates – that was given prominent publicity in the MSM of the day..

So for a few years, geeky-looking technology nerds were held in high(er) esteem by acceptable-looking young ladies. We were seen as “success objects”.

And yet – even as a horny young nerd – I knew something was not quite right..

It is not surprise the countries with women valuing wisdom in men are the one lading the world right now, Japan and South Korea have the most advance technology specially in robots, South Korea will be the first country to have robots living in the common household for 2015 according to the GOP and companies, Tokyo is the most advanced city in the world, Iran has the best computers programmer, they even hacked an USA drone and took it for them and it is not the first time they do it. Any of you remember where Japan was just 40 years ago? a relative of mine in college told me Indians men are the best maths teacher he has seen ever.

In these countries they don’t have affirmative action, female victim hood ideology and male bashing, everybody has the same education and take the same test and have the same amount of time to study if you don’t pass it is not because you are woman and Asian women know very well and tend to have a very good common sense, that is why is so hard to feminist get into societies like Taiwan, South Korea, Japan, China, Iran etc.

Young women good for men? God, just look at any painting,sculpture and poem, they are all about the beauty of young women, it was a privilege for any women be the model for any artist, they felt the attention, felt good being immortalizes for ever they knew they are beautiful in nature if an artist wanted to to make a sculpture of theirs naked body (just the best looking women were considered muses), do I have to mention these model were women as young as teenage girl most of them being fiance=bride-to-be 14-18 years old of the artist? in these days nubile age was this average and if we use our “modern” society many famous painters, sculptures and other artist will be taged as pedos.

‘Can anyone imagine a hip young urban lady in modern America dating a patent clerk with bright ideas?’

Does he look good in a leather jacket and have a drug problem?