Ms. Susan Walsh, of Hooking Up Smart.com, sent me an article from today’s Washington Post, yet another in the umpteen pieces they’ve run about how Single Black Women should consider dating and more importantly, marrying outside their race, most notably White Men. Below is my email response to Ms. Walsh, and I thank her and all my readers for their emails. Please by all means, keep em coming!
What we all must understand is that these kinds of pieces are the Black Female equivalent to Lori Gottlieb’s “Marry Him!”, when you really get down to it. And, like Gottlieb’s piece, all it does is piss Men-both Black AND White-off. That’s because, as usual, most Women-there are always exceptions, but alas, they tend not to get the ink-have an inability to see all sides of the chessboard. Black Women, like their White sisters, always keep making the same assumptions, that they can determine when and under what circumstances they can marry or even date. Well, nothing more could be further from the truth. Unless Men step up, NOTHING HAPPENS. Hence the reason why Gottlieb’s in he pickle she finds herself. Especially now that he ex Tim’s had the chance to be heard.
Anyway, here’s my email response. Oh, and definitely do expect more and more such pieces coming from the nation’s elite Legacy Media; here’s the piece Ms. Walsh was talking about.
*Obsidian Responds*
Hi Ms. Walsh & Good Morning,
Pfft. Please don’t waste your time w/junk like that, LOL. Not that I have any problem whatsoever with whomever anyone wants to be with – I don’t – it’s just that, for all the sound and fury, Sistas just aint gonna lead a mass exodus elsewhere. Think about it, they don’t even hookup with Brothas on the continent (Africa) like that, LOL. Bottomline is, Black Women desire, first and foremost, Black Men for mates.
Period.
Now, with that said, lemme lay this on ya:
Since your being exposed to the Matrix – the real deal not only on Human sociosexual dynamics, but how all of this is linked to our larger society in so many ways – you can now see how what The Fifth Horseman, Roissy, Ferdinand Bardamu and many others is actually coming to pass, right before your eyes. Black America has always been a kind of cultural bellwether for the rest of the country. As we go, so goes the nation as a whole.
Contrary to popular opinion, prior to 1965, Black marital rates were at least 60%, and prior to that point it was even higher than that-coming right out from under Slavery, the first thing Black folk did was get married. In fact, during the early 1900s – through the Great Depression-when Jim Crow was particularly virulent – Black marital rates were nearly 90%. An all time high for Black America that has never been achieved again.
Between 1965 and 2005, Black marital rates plummeted to where it is today, barely 40% — and falling. That’s why I and others laugh in Jamila’s face with her “plan”. And she considers herself a “smart” Black Woman? Please…
So, what happened? The Great Society happened. When Black Women no longer *needed* Black Men to survive, ie, get married, they simply didn’t get married anymore. The “I don’t need a Man” mantra that’s very commonplace in Black America – remember we’ve dealt with LaToya Gottliebs for decades – grew out of that era. And to be sure, there were other factors that played into the mix, like closing of inner city jobs, and the Crack Wars that led to millions of Black either dying or spending long stretches in the joint. Nevertheless, the huge Welfare state that was created in the mid 60s did a kind of damage to Black America that Jim Crow at its worst couldn’t.
Now we’re beginning to see the very same happening to White America. Think about it: we’ve got the Mancession, with no end in sight, and millions of White Women unable to find mates. And in many ways, White Women no longer *need* White Men. Sound familiar?
So, here’s how its all going to go down, in the coming decade:
1. The Mancession will be more or less permanent-simply put, and you know this, given your economics training, we have a Male Surplus. Given our current economic and capitalistic configuration, we can expect the offifical unemployment rate to remain in the high single digits, if not higher than that, for the bulk of this decade, the majority of that number being Men. This alone will have a huge impact on the dating and mating scene, because Women, as you even seen on your blog, simply aren’t as flexible as are Men. Even when they earn more, they simply will not ante up for dates, much less support, a lesser earning Man or one who doesn’t earn anything at all.
2. Going Ghost-you’ve already heard that term and what it means. That is the real “exodus” you and other Women need to be concerned about, not all the squawking of a few uppity Sistas talking some Keith Sweat stuff (“I’m gonna, I’m gonna) about marrying out. Just like Lori Gottlieb, as a JAP, ain’t marrying out (and is a huge part of her problem, by the way). Nor are Black Women likely to use fertility clinics, unless they’re Lesbians, but we’ll get to that in a moment. The point is, with the Mancession being pretty much permanent, and Feminist ideology also being pretty much permanent, what we can expect to see happen is more and more Men-millions-simply “disappear” from pretty much all facets of American social life. Again, Black America is an excellent case in point. In Inner City America, one quickly notices that there is one group who is largely absent-Black Men in their 30s and 40s-arguably the most productive years of a Man’s life. Instead, what one tends to see are young Black boys, and young adult aged Black Men, in their late teens through the 20s. Then, you’ll see a goodly number of senior citizen aged Black Men. But those Men in the middle-ghost. Now in this case, the reasons have more to do with prison and early death, but still, keep in mind that the Black Male unemployment rate is easily twice that of the White Male one, *even when you control for education, including unviersity level, and criminal background*. White Men with lesser edu-creds AND a criminal record can and often do get better paying jobs than Black Men who have greater edu-creds and a lesser to no criminal record. There’s been all kinds of studies on this point that are easily found online. Anyway, the point is, that the “going ghost” thing has been in evidence in Black America for decades; now, it’s White America’s turn.
3. Introduction of Sex-Tech. Although there are some who wanna clown the idea of Sexbots, (and don’t get me wrong, no way in hell I’m using one) the point of which is that sex tech is about to really get wicked. That’s because, the real deal that’s about to drop is the 3DVR Porn that’s right around the corner. Remember Avatar? Now, just imagine that kind of experience, at home, and with tactile sensing software added, just along Porn lines. The tech is already in the pipeline, and Porn is one of the biggest enterprises going in the country, if not world. When it drops – and I say it goes down mid decade, roughly five years from now or less – we can expect that potential 80% of Men to be cut in half. Guys will be able to “jack in and jack off” to a Matrix-like experience of Porn. Club and lounge life will pretty much dry up, for all but the dive bars on the low end, and those that cater to the elites. Not that Dating Life wasn’t already on life support, but when “Avatar Porn” arrives, the Dating scene will be, for all intents and purposes, dead. The tech will be cheaper to bring to market, quickly iron the kinks out, and able to be used in the privacy of your own home, with a HUGE profit margin. Guys are already dropping out with current day Internet Porn and video gaming as it is; “Matrix Porn” will be the Dating Killer. Bet on it.
4. Therefore, we can expect one of several scenarios to happen, with varying degrees, to America’s Women over the next decade to decade and a half: 1-Defacto Harems; 2-Early, and largely permanent Spinsterhood; 3-Situational Lesbianism; 4-Single Mommyhood as an American norm. Marital rates, even among the elites and rural enclaves, will begin/continue to decline, to finally rest on the current Black marital rate, roughly 40% nationwide. And in Black America, that number will continue to erode to about 10-15%, if that. Fertility clinics will be a booming business, at least as long as the Donor Daddies don’t have to pay for their offspring, which I have a sneaking suspicion, as we move through the decade, moves will bemade to track them down and slap em with child support fees. If and when that happens, kiss the Test Tube Baby business goodbye. De Facto harem making will skyrocket among all social groupings, but, as it always does, it will be among the elites where changes in law, driven by Feminist lobbies, will attempt to make the Mistress equal in legal standing to the Wife, thereby driving yet another nail in the coffin that is Marriage. Right now as we speak, there’s laws on the books in NJ for Palimony, several cases have been heard in court over this, and there’s moves afoot to have the same thing out in Cali, too. Then there’s the cases of Tiger Woods and John Edwards, that will drive this. So again, Women like Gottlieb and Jamila are out of their freaking minds if they think being a Wife in 21st century America carried the same cachet it did 50 years ago, or even 25 years ago. Don’t be fooled, it doesn’t.
Situational Lesbianism will see an uptick, in direct response to all of these events, expect to hear and see more about this over the coming decade, you heard it here. Women, having a sexuality that’s more fluid than Men on balance, will seek to “try this” and for a time, it’ll be the next big fad-but it won’t last. Quiet as its kept, domestic spats are much more common among lesbian couples, which makes a lot of sense once one thinks about it. And, let’s face it-even bi-chicks love themselves some of the Magic Stick. So, don’t expect a huge presence on this front, though the “Woman bites Dog” novelty of it will get a goodly bit of ink.
Expect Women to publish more Gottlieb type books, blogs and articles, basically attempting to shame Men, even those they didn’t want originally, to marry and or otherwise cohabitate with them. Please notice the Male reaction to Gottlieb’s book. The recent NYT piece about UNC-Chapel Hill and in particular Ms. Jayne Dallas’ remarks. And so on. If anything, Women publishing these kinds of pieces only make things worse, not better, because it not only pisses Men enmasse off, but they pack up their ball and go home, never to return.
Once the shaming tactics prove to be ineffective, the next thing Women en masse will attempt to do, is press all forms of gov’t for more taxation and regulations, to make up for the Man shortage. This too will fail, for the simple reason that all municipalities’ budgets, going all the way up to the Fed level, are shrinking, due in large part to the ongoing and more or less permanent Mancession. Even relatively higher earning Women will soon be heard to be grumbling about their taxes being too high, but they either can’t bring themselves to call a spade a spade, or they’ll cave into warped Feminist ideology to keep the whole thing going as long as possible. But of course, it is unsustainable. A full spectrum systemic collapse, is inevitable.
Failing a complete and total 180 of the way business is being done on this front right now – led by Women themselves – we can be certain to see the kind of dystopian reality in ten years, give or take a few on either side. And, because we’ve seen that Women aren’t particularly too flexible or outside the box thinkers, or can see coming trends or see the connection between cause and effect very well in aggregate, we can expect what I’m talking about to be the coin of the realm for much of the first half of the 21st century. It’ll take a goodly bit of pain for most Women before anything will change.
Almost everything that Women believed vis a vis the Feminist Lobby, will have been proven to be a Big Lie. But of course, by then, it will be too late for the current and succeedant cohorts of Women — those in their 20s through 40s. Those who are at present in their pre-teen years can be spared, if we act now, within the next ten years. Otherwise, if nothing changes for the better come say, 2025 or so, yet another generation of Women will meet the same fate.
For Black Women, we can expect to see all of this really being pronounced, as fewer eligible Black Men to go around really drives their value through the roof. And, as Women of all races, get closer to the age of 30, we’ll see more and more of what goes on right now in Old Folks’ Homes, where Women who live an average of seven years longer than do Men, either fight over the few Men left, or they willingly become part of the Old Coot’s harem, LOL. I’ve seen this happen firsthand, because I had family members who used to work in said environments. That, my friend, is the future, just going backward in ages till about say, 30 or so.
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it seems like all you are talking about is sex and not love love is usually the reason we merry right.
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