Avoiding the Fate of the AMC

Post image for Avoiding the Fate of the AMC

by Keoni Galt on February 14, 2010

In the terminology of the Venusian arts, AFC, as we all know, stands for Average Frustrated Chump. This article deals with an even sadder specimen of the male species – the Average Married Chump.

Disclaimer: This article is intended for those of us suckers, fools, naive idiots and morons that either got married before we knew better (such as myself), or are dumb enough to sign on the dotted line for Marriage 2.0. despite knowing better. Yes, we get it, all you MGTOW-ers and PUA-ers  – getting into Marriage 2.0 with a Western Woman is dumb, crazy and foolhardy. Better to go your own way and avoid women altogether…or just game the young sluts or crazy cougars for commitment free, protected sex. Believe me…we get it.

Nevertheless, there are men that have or intend to get married. This column is intended for those of us that are crazy and foolhardy enough to think we can actually marry a Western woman and and have children to create a family – and not be emasculated, pussy-whipped, cheated on, cuckolded, divorced and ass-raped with vagina-mony and child support judgments in our Soviet-styled family court system.  In fact this article is actually about how a married man under today’s marriage 2.0 regime can actually do his own part to avoid all of the pitfalls and dangers of today’s divorce – child support racket.

I write this disclaimer, simply because I’ve observed numerous discussions of marriage in the “man-o-sphere” invariably always have a chorus of MGTOW-ers and PUA-ers that always have to weigh in with their “you married guys are idiots” or ” it’s best to avoid marriage all together.”

Thanks guys…we already know. We still have to deal with our own realities, and telling us over and over again how stupid or foolish we are may make yourself feel better about yourself and the path you chose to follow…but it doesn’t actually help those of us that are already married or who intend to get married and have children in the future.

Most of us already know what Marriage 2.0 means. Most Spearhead readers know about the history of the feminist movement and it’s deliberate and destructive unleashing of the demons of female sexual dystopia on society. They actively subverted and corrupted Marriage 1.0 – the institution of Patriarchy – to deliberately destroy the foundation for civilized society, so as to build a Brave New World Order based on the illusion of  “gender equality.” That, of course, was merely the mechanism to inculcate a sense of victim-hood into women so that they would rebel against the gender roles that were clearly defined under Marriage 1.0, and forgo getting married at a young age when they are most fertile, so that the likelihood of having multiple children in stable nuclear homes with a Father who was the primary authority figure in that home, would become a near obsolete anachronism.  The proof is in the pudding – the Demographic decline of the West is a fact, and proves that the real goal of feminism was and is all about population control.

By taking up the mantle of Patriarch, and having a successful marriage with multiple children, while increasingly dangerous to men and their children under the current feminist regime, is in fact a blow to those that seek to prevent the formation of stable, Male headed nuclear families in the first place.

So what can you, as a man, do, to become that Patriarch whose wife and children love and respect?

While it is a complex issue – and there are so many variables at play, it is impossible to ensure ONE CORRECT way to make a marriage in today’s feminazi-fucked world work, there are a number of things you can do to at least lessen the odds as much as possible.

To start with, there are a few points that all men who are contemplating marriage need to consider:

The Principle Feature of Female Sexuality is Hypergamy

Unless you understand this principle fully and completely, you WILL have trouble in your marriage.

To put it succinctly – the key to surviving — and indeed, even thriving — in marriage 2.0, is to behave and conduct yourself as if you were in marriage 1.0…the old school definition. You MUST wear the pants. You MUST be the literal and figurative Head of your household. If you cannot do this, you should indeed go your own way or confine yourself to Gaming women for short term relationships with no commitment.

Remember: NO woman respects a man she can rule. Any man she can rule, is a man she will have contempt for. Any man she has contempt for, she simply cannot lust. And if she doesn’t lust you, she certainly will not “love” you.

To put it even simpler than that, you need to understand the key to a successful marriage is establishing and maintaining a relationship based on the reality of her hypergamous instincts. The first thing you must do to ensure success, is of course to choose the “right” woman.

So what are the qualities of the “right” woman? After all, we Men of the Spearhead,  hold a special scorn for women that continually make the empty claim “Not all women are like that!

In terms of morality, attitudes and behavior, indeed, not all women are “like that.” There are women who have been raised in an environment that makes it far more likely she will have the self-control, maturity and awareness to accept your leadership role to make sure you have a successful marriage.

In short…here are the characteristics that make a successful marriage with a Western Woman more likely -

*Was she was raised in an intact, happy nuclear family?

This is perhaps THE most important prerequisite you should have in assessing whether or not the great risks involved with marriage in today’s society are worth taking on with any particular woman. In many ways, we human beings develop the same attitudes, behaviors, habits and ethics of the people who raise us. From childhood, we are given a template of life that we both consciously and subconsciously follow. Women from a broken home were raised within that template. When a woman comes from a broken home and raised by a single mother, she WILL internalize the same attitudes and behaviors of her mother, the same attitudes that broke her own mother’s home up greatly increases the chances that she will break up your own home that you make with her as well. This is especially true if she comes from a broken home for which the mother places all of the blame for the breakup of the marriage on the ex-husband/father.

Does she have a positive, respectful relationship with her Father?

Take careful note of any prospective wife’s relationship with her father (the guy she considers as the primary male that raised her..not necessarily her bio-dad). Does she respect him? Is he an authority figure to her that she admires, and will listen and follow his advice? If she doesn’t respect the male authority of the home she was raised in, she’s not going to respect your male authority in your home either.

*Is she is younger than you?

This one factor really gives a man a “head-start” in establishing a relationship of proper balance – one in which the man and the woman fulfill their complementary gender roles. It also increases the likelihood that she is either a virgin or relatively inexperienced.  By virtue of your older age, you will hopefully have accomplishments, achievements and experience that she will admire and respect. She will be “looking up to you” from the very beginning. That’s a much easier place to maintain your “up” status if your relationship is founded on that to begin with.  Besides, if your goal is to have multiple children, it doesn’t make  sense to marry an older woman. How many kids did Ashton Kutcher and Demi Moore have again?

* Does she have a sense of moral awareness and justice?

Observe her attitudes and beliefs when she is presented with scenarios, dramatized performances or real life examples of the issues that are directly related to marital success. What is her opinion of a friend that she knows is cheating? Does she condone, excuse or justifies her friends or family members doing things like cuckolding, cheating, or divorcing? What are her opinions of movie stars, rock or pop stars and other celebrities that engage in all sorts of marriage destroying behaviors? Does she hold men and women equally accountable? Does she think it was perfectly alright for Tiger Woods wife to hit him with a golf club? Take stock of all the examples that show her attitude when they present themselves. All of the attitudes she expresses that adhere to what feminist society would consider ‘politically correct’ are bright, red flags. Ignore them at your own risk.

* What are her life goals? Does she understand the realities of her own biological clock and the opportunity costs of pursuing the education/career track versus having children?

Listen to what she says are her primary goals in life. Is she following the feminist script of education-career- THAN maybe a kid or two onto the road of fulfilment and having it all as a supermom? Or is she perfectly content to stay home and raise children? Will she support you in your own career goals? Will she complement your own life’s mission goals…or is she determined to set her own goals (which inevitably end up competing with yours, not complementing).

* How does she manage money and credit?

Is she a compulsive shopper? Does she consider shopping to be a primary form of entertainment? Most importantly…does she have credit card debt? If she finances her compulsive clothes shopping with credit cards that she never pays off in full, she will be dragging you into debt slavery right along with her after the wedding. Oftentimes, the “experts” will cite “money troubles” as the leading factor in a marriage breaking up. In politically incorrect terms, this usually means she spends more than they can pay off, and she resents him for failing to “provide.”

Now, let’s just say you think you’ve found “the one” who fits the bill. A woman that is least likely to give you the gift of a broken home, child support/vagina-mony mandated slavery and alienated children. You get married.

While the previous list of characteristics are definitely founded on the principle that “not all women are like that,” after all, not all women are raging sluts living the feminist dictated lifestyle,  it is after marriage, when you settle down into a routine of daily living with each other, that in fact you will find out that ALL women ARE like that.

Lose her respect, let her take the role of authority in the house, and you’ll see how ALL women are driven by their hypergamous instinct. While she may be in fact a woman who steadfastly doesn’t believe in divorce…who takes her vows seriously (probably because of a religious belief), perhaps she won’t divorce you — but eventually you’ll wish she did. Her contempt for you and your emasculated state will absolutely pollute your home environment. Her disrespect for you will infect your children, poison the atmosphere and you will end up with what is commonly known as a “dysfunctional” family.

How do you avoid this? Here’s a list of bullet points to consider:

  • Study “Game” or learn the art of seducing women. Than seduce your wife…over and over again.
  • Don’t become predictable.
  • Constantly DHV. Always remind her at every opportunity that presents itself as to how lucky she is to be married to YOU.
  • “Neg” her regularly.
  • Learn to recognize her shit tests.
  • Understand that ULTIMATUMS are the ultimate shit test. Never, ever, EVER give in to an ultimatum.
  • Call her on her bullshit…the biggest of which is using sex as a bargaining chip. The second you give into her attempts to make sex a bargaining tool, you’ve placed your sex life into the category of competitive rather then complementary. It’s a power play you WILL lose.
  • Be decisive and confident. Ask her for her opinions…but NOT her approval. This also ties in with not being predictable. Plan things for her and your family to do…but don’t tell her about it. Just tell her “we got plans, get ready.” Give her as little details as possible — only enough to ensure she wears the appropriate apparel. Tease her whenever she asks about your plans…in this way, you build up her sense of anticipation and mystery. If you learn to do this right, you can actually make her excited about doing things that would otherwise be repetitive and mundane.
  • Never let her dictate big purchasing decisions. You can take her opinion into account…but remember that you should have final say. No bargaining either. “We’ll get the minivan now, you can buy your sports car later.”
  • Maintain friends and interests of your own…especially those considered “masculine.” Hunting, fishing…whatever. Something for which you can go and do without her.  Never give up your hobby or recreation ESPECIALLY if she tries to get you to stop.  Hunters, hunt. Fisherman, fish. Surfers, surf. Skiers, ski. Ballplayers, play ball. She knows what kind of guy she’s marrying and the hobbies he enjoys. Her trying to get you to quit your hobby or activity is really just a shit test to see how much of a spine you have.
  • Never EVER let her “OWN THE HOUSE.” Don’t let her designate one area as your “man cave” and the rest of the house is her domain to decorate and furnish as she desires. Let her have some rooms…like bathrooms and kitchens (especially since your not going to marry a woman that isn’t spending significant time in the kitchen in the first place…). Make sure the common rooms have evidence that a MAN lives there too. This, of course, does not mean you shouldn’t have your own “man cave.” Just make sure it is not the ONLY room in the house that looks like a man dwells there.
  • Do NOT be afraid of her emotional state. She is a woman, and emotional instability is simply how she is designed. As Roissy stated so eloquently in his The 16 Commandments of Poon:

You are an oak tree. You will not be manipulated by crying, yelling, lying, head games, sexual withdrawal, jealousy ploys, pity plays, shit tests, hot/cold/hot/cold, disappearing acts, or guilt trips. She will rain and thunder all around you and you will shelter her until her storm passes. She will not drag you into her chaos or uproot you. When you have mastery over yourself, you will have mastery over her.

If all this seems like a little too much to remember, there is a simple shortcut you can use to keep yourself in check. When talking with her, or contemplating talking to her, you can maintain the correct relationship dynamic by asking yourself a very simple question in your mind: “Am I talking to her as if she were my lover…or as if she were my mother, and I her child?”

You don’t ASK FOR PERMISSION to do anything. That’s what a kid does, begging mommy for permission.

She’s not your mommy…never forget that. Because as soon as you fall into that role, you will become that AMC. That pathetic version of a walking zombie, trapped and miserable in a sexless marriage to a woman that doesn’t respect you, and is not motivated to stay in shape and attractive for you.

We all know that marriage in this day and age is mostly a bad deal for men…nevertheless, if you do decide to take the plunge, remember that you do have some control in how it turns out.

{ 21 comments… read them below or add one }

Vickie August 28, 2010 at 23:19

Unfortunately, most men are not self-actualized enough to respond to anything but genetic programming. THAT’S why they don’t stay single. Any man, no matter how self-actualized or how well-versed in the skills presented in this article will end up married to a woman who knows what she is doing.

You can TRY to wear the pants, but if you’ve married a woman who is more of a man than you are, it’s a losing proposition. You’re right….she won’t respect you. Go on and try to win that one. Make sure you are a “real man” that a woman can admire before you try on these tricks.

Personally, I think it is FIRST and foremost the woman’s job to make sure the relationship works. Modern relationships don’t work because the woman is self-absorbed. If the woman is smart enough to marry a better man than her and to NOT go around being his mom, the relationship will work. Men are simple, with simple genetic programming that has not changed in any essential way for millions of years. (Read up on some genetic science. I suggest “Shadows of Forgotten Ancestors” by Carl Sagn and Ann Duryan. )

Women have become like men and need to remember the feminine arts. Not the subservient ones, but the ones that complement a man’s strength and problem solving prediposition. These are being virtuous, patient, playful, nurturing, and many other traits that women have forgotten because they are too busy being men.

Men, send your women to goddesstryarts.com where they will learn to stop being your rival and learn to be a complement to you. Men haven’t changed and don’t need to be fixed. Women need to learn how to get their needs met in their romantic relationships without nagging and smothering. They need to remember the ancient ways where male and female energy balance each other. Women will NOT lose what they’ve gained through the feminists movement and men will be much happier. DON’T tell her she needs to be fixed. Be sly…let her “find” this information that will teach her how to “fix” her man and get her needs met. She’ll learn to take responsibility for her part in the relationship in a way that makes you both much happier.

Hot debate. What do you think? Thumb up 23 Thumb down 26
chris October 30, 2010 at 14:34

As a new male on the scene (23), I’m still single. I’m also a man divided. I see the venusian arts. They are tempting to just pursue.. But I can’t possibly respect a woman I manipulate…or love one who manipulates me.
And yes, we can tell when women manipulate. It is an exercise in extreme self control to consent to being manipulated. Kudos to those emasculated guys out there: it takes a stubborness and lack of self respect I just don’t have to be as pussy whipped as you are.

I have the idealistic hope (one that I will probably end up dashing on the rocks someday, completely bored of pursueing it) that a relationship can be achieved where there is mutual respect and love rather than this alpha/bitch dog relationship our society is in love with (interchange male/female (patriarchal), female/male (feminist), male/male (progressive), female/female (scissor me timbers) with the alpha/bitch here) .

But maybe that is just me.

FYI Vicky. Your average girl cannot possibly know what it is like to number one: get sucker punched in the face…and number two: turn around and knock the punk out…and his two big ass friends.

Manliness/pantliness etc… it doesnt come out in the household relationship. It comes out in the emergencies. Everything else: who gives?

If you’ve got the stones to wear the pants, you should be with a girl. They are much prettier and less hairy.

Well-loved. Like or Dislike: Thumb up 22 Thumb down 4
Ben November 13, 2010 at 21:11

Chris,

when you said “I cant possibly respect a woman I manipulate” you have just described the asshole who gets all the women. He doesn’t respect any of them AT ALL, and they love him for it. Sure they bitch and moan that he is such an asshole, but their actions speak louder than words. Women DO NOT want to be respected. In fact, women haven’t a clue what respect means.

The minute you show a woman you respect her is the minute she begins looking for a new man.

Que the bitching and moaning to follow my post…

Well-loved. Like or Dislike: Thumb up 36 Thumb down 7
Marsian December 27, 2010 at 11:31

It is very sad to see these misconceptions. If you are a true man, you do not “disrespect” a woman. That notion is ridiculous to me.
Before getting a respectful woman, you have to have self-respect first.

Saying “No” to a woman is not equal to being an ass. It’s equal to have some goddamn self-respect.

Hot debate. What do you think? Thumb up 19 Thumb down 15
Antony January 6, 2011 at 15:43

Adam was supposed to do the will of God, not himself. Then God would give him a wife that would be his help and they would love each other (honor God who is love and have faith in love), live for each other, so God would give them everything and life would be pure pleasure and easy. A trinity of love with God providing and protecting them both, through Adam. Adam and Eve didn’t have enough faith in what God said and Adam didn’t love Eve enough. Women want to cut their ties to God by getting rid of men. So Eve was deceived by the serpent and led them both out of the garden into the animal hate (love of self, me me me, my country , my sex (little boys hate little girls, women hate men, men hate women), hate of others) system “war zone” which the world is now. If they had loved each other perfectly they would have been protected by God and Eve wouldn’t have been tempted to look for more fulfillment in careers, food, jewelry.

He feared Eve more than God, people fear everything but God, women and the natural world more than the God who controls it all. “because you have hearkened unto thy wife”. Then Adam blamed her showing he loved himself more then her, thinking he was a separate entity from her and God. They said (like independent women) we want to do our own thing, live for ourselves, our will not thine, independent of you and follow our own imaginary ego [god of self , human nature (the "devil", the serpent)], getting our own land, garden, and making our own living and name for ourselves. OK God said to men, but you won’t make it, you will die off, I will make your life vanity and curse the earth with trouble and weeds which will never stop growing so you will have to work and never get anywhere. Like Cain who vainly “tilled the soil” instead if Abel who looked after God’s things, his sheep.

The world will now be the opposite of normal. Now everything, nature, the animals, women, will be against you and you will lose my power. (Adam at first had total authority, the power of God in him, which is why evil women look for a man with his own fake “authority” a deceitful liar who pretends to know everything). Relationships will now be a “war” (you like me more than I like you) and if a man has no war spirit and shows he likes her too much, he is useless to her in the “war” to “win” against others. She is a mercenary warrior, she will never choose a man who likes her, that would be believing in God and love. An evil “real man” “righteous” “son of god (devil)” with a war nature (they say “I’m from Germany, therefore God is German, so shooting bullets into godless people from other countries is righteous”) tries to overcome the world, “conquer” other countries, the business world, women, animals and nature, hunting, cutting down trees, but never can because hate is a lie. Adam had the power to overcome, God’s power, love instead of fake power, hate, to “subdue the earth” but failed.

God said now I won’t give you a wife, who lets you lead her for me because you love her. An “independent” “woman”, an anomaly who is the opposite of what a real woman was supposed to be, will choose you (not you choose her, you’ll have to prove you are a “real man” first though) so she can sponge off you. She will deceive you by appealing to your ego and you will let her choose you, sucker, instead of choosing the girl I give you and waits to be chosen. So you will end up with an evil girl who throws herself at you based on your status (military ranking) and how much tan you have (how much you can help her beat people) instead of the nice girl who would have really loved you. “look at my trophy wife (liability) who picked (tricked) me because I proved I’m a “winner” (sucker, women “love” winners to leach off, make them no.1) real man by climbing Mt Everest” She is the warrior and you are her “dominant” (ha, ha) weapon, that she manipulates and dominates. She might hide it at first, but she has a plan to take over, which often takes about 7 years. God meant the woman to be a help, but when Adam and Eve failed this switched to a hindrance. She is a liability and leads them both to death. Not that you like girls, and the nice girl was too risky, you can’t risk your pride and manhood by showing her first you like her can you?

Christ took the blame for a nice girl who admitted she was wrong, but your wife will never do that. She will never admit she is wrong. You will always get the blame and any time anything might make her look bad, she will get you to do it so she remains innocent. You are her “provider and protector” (instead of God) sucker that she stands behind and pushes into fighting her battles, hurting other people. Nice girls look for security in love, but evil girls look for security in hate. A nice girl can find it if she finds a nice man who believes in and has learnt from God (overcomes the world for her, sees through the illusion of hate and appearances, Christ) but an evil girl will never be satisfied. Luckily there are a few of these nice boys and nice girls who actually trust in God, not themselves, but they will never find each other without God, God must find the “bride” Luckily some people can see unless they are “blinded” by the devil, the world is a topsy turvy madhouse and try to turn around, which is why people die off slowly, to give them a chance to. No man will ever be fully deceived, “self” confident (women love “confidence”) because he will always doubt himself and can’t believe in a god, the devil, self, that doesn’t exist as much as she can. He will never be as sure he’s right like her, and Eve. In a real marriage, they can’t get enough of each other. But in an evil marriage, affection will get less and less because they resent giving each other pleasure. He wants to rape her and she wants to be dominated and raped. Which is why women fantasize about rape and like “exciting”sex with bad boys who rape them.

Since the marriage is based on lust and hate, not love, she will always “love” you less so she will control you because like Eve, you will never be able to match her belief in the devil (hate and appearances (why women love a man who dresses well, it is so unusual. If a man dresses better than her, she can’t resist him)). So instead of being equal, she will be less attracted to you than you are to her and hold back sex and affection. You will have to “win” her, climb Mt Everest, over and over again. If they ever do have sex the man will want it over fast so that she is left cheated and he wins. She will also test you all the time to see if she can control you. If you let her, you have less of the devil in you and less dominance so she will be less and less attracted to you. So your marriage will be a downward spiral, her whipping you to make more money out of the world God has cursed to buy jewelry to fill the void of “love” and beat other women. She will get fatter and fatter because she’s not attracted to you and unfulfilled and eventually divorce you if attractive, taking all the furniture to find a bully with more tan.

What it’s meant to be is men lead women, not because they are dominant but because they love them and give them free will. Women then follow him back to God because they love him. God destroys the mans ego, human nature which means he can love the girl fully which destroys her ego. Then they can be one instead of two egos fighting each other, so the marriage is eternal. It only works if the girl is nice though, a nasty one will destroy a man who has no ego (an “unrighteous” “sinner” without any war spirit) and is a link to God (Christ) to prove her independence. The world is operating on hate so doesn’t understand this so it went from trying to dominate women to now switching to feminism. Both are loveless and wrong but feminism is worse because it leads to destruction. Give a nasty girl power and watch her go psycho! She’s so sure of herself she’ll stop at nothing to destroy you. Society was held together by a thread by male dominance which was evil but now society will destroy itself. The same as in a marriage based on hate, unless the man constantly fights to keep control, the woman will destroy the marriage.

Hot debate. What do you think? Thumb up 13 Thumb down 26
AMC, but not for long. January 7, 2011 at 14:32

Thank you for this post. I wish I had found it when you originally posted it almost a year ago. Instead, I’ve just started to implement the suggestions you made after coming to these exact conclusions over the past month. Hopefully, it’s not too late. Although, it might be.

Like or Dislike: Thumb up 12 Thumb down 2
Cecil Sesslenet January 16, 2011 at 09:15

Hidden due to low comment rating. Click here to see.

Poorly-rated. Like or Dislike: Thumb up 18 Thumb down 38
AMC, but not for long. January 17, 2011 at 09:45

Cecil,

When I first got married, your outlook re: partnership v. competition was one that I shared wholeheartedly. I’d tell my wife we were working together on the same side, would discuss decisions with her, didn’t try to assert any faux dominance over her to make myself feel superior or put her in her place, all of that.

Over time though (several years), a problem developed. It is the exact problem the author described above. While I had done nothing wrong, she developed contempt for me. When I would supplicate to assuage her feelings, the issues intensified. The tipping point came late last year when she deigned to get physical with me (and regardless of what I see/read on these sites about game and what you may term as misogynist, I will never strike back or hit a woman in anger).

Something had to change or this was going to end in divorce or worse. What I changed was me and my approach to our interactions. I’ve been implementing the suggestions made in this article, and the improvement in our relationship has been significant. I’ve come to realize that she wants me to dominate her, to be the man wearing the pants. I’ve also come to realize that this was her “daddy issue”, except that she harbored some disdain for him due to what she saw as his acquiesence to her mother and not being the man he should have, in her eyes.

Now, does this mean I’ve changed my attitude to that of a Grade A asshole and have taken to smacking my woman around? Of course not, I’ve still got to be me and generally, I’m a nice guy. But I now recognize when I’ve got to display dominant behavior, when I’ve got to deflect/confront her giving me shit for trivial matters that even SHE didn’t care about (after one such incident, she fully admitted as such), and showing the confidence and assertiveness that she desires in a man.

So for now, I’m not divorced and I’m not unloved. I’m feeling a whole lot better about the direction of my marraige in general. And while I respect your right to state your opinion, Cecil…. I’ve compiled my own personal anecdotes that definitively state to me you are dead wrong. It’s okay though, because so was I.

Well-loved. Like or Dislike: Thumb up 41 Thumb down 4
Kat February 20, 2011 at 12:16

Hidden due to low comment rating. Click here to see.

Poorly-rated. Like or Dislike: Thumb up 14 Thumb down 59
teotwawki3 February 21, 2011 at 06:50

Kat,
That is the problem. There are no women like that which is why men should not marry. That was the whole point of the article. Marriage is a big time losing proposition for a man. IF you were stupid enough to get married

“This article is intended for those of us suckers, fools, naive idiots and morons that either got married before we knew better (such as myself), or are dumb enough to sign on the dotted line for Marriage 2.0. despite knowing better.”

If a woman has all of those career goals and such she should not “enslave” herself to a man in marriage anyway. Neither should a man when he can get sex out of wedlock without the mistreatment of a bitter wife and the risk of losing everything in divorce court.

Well-loved. Like or Dislike: Thumb up 30 Thumb down 7
Vanyo February 21, 2011 at 22:53

Cat and Cecil – I have been in more relationships than I care to count, you are both full of sh*t, stop spreading your lies and shaming language. Women who are dominant or seek power in the relationship always have unstable relationships and usually end up alone at 30, these days. I know, because I prey on these women out in the pubs and bars for quick and easy pump and dumps.

Well-loved. Like or Dislike: Thumb up 38 Thumb down 9
Dragon chaser June 3, 2011 at 07:24

Marriage is so last millennium.

Like or Dislike: Thumb up 12 Thumb down 4
Stephenie Rowling July 3, 2011 at 11:57

Hi.
I’m going to start a blog to discuss this things and I want a link to job division by gender.
We all know that feminist want equality in the high paying cushy jobs but don’t care for low playing or dangerous ones and I want something to place in my blog that shows the gender difference into the menial jobs like trash pickers and how come feminists are not battling for having an equal amount of women picking trash the same way they want an equal amount of women being CEO’s.
Thanks for the help.

Like or Dislike: Thumb up 16 Thumb down 2
Scully October 29, 2011 at 23:22

This is nit picking but you need to reverse your usage of “then” and “than”. You have them backwards. Sorry, but this is a pet peeve of mine. “Than” is for comparison and “then” is used to establish a timeline.

Like or Dislike: Thumb up 6 Thumb down 2
Mastedon January 6, 2012 at 12:04

UGHHH,,, this explains me to a tee, and I am divorced, paying child support, and have become a part time dad in what I deemed as once was the most important and vital part of my life that meant anything, my family.
Under the idea that infidelity, is not suppose to have any bearing on the ability to parent, my child was directly given to my ex wife, I was given the visitation rights of an inmate at a state prison, and I get to pay her for being a whore with another man, and its subsequent effects on our marriage.
The “capacity to commit adultery” and destroy your family cannot be in the best interest of the child, so how can it be irrelevant in considering whom is a fit parent?
Its this 1950′s idea of June Cleaver being blanketed over women whove spent the last thirty years watching soap operas and being influenced to believe the “married” life is a demeaning and frigid slow death.
Every form of media in every way has turned the pride and accomplishment of raising a good person into a picture of a wasted life of servitude and debasement. Yet, the very courts pretense every case with this idea that before them stands June Cleaver herself, and Charles Manson. Well, kids get along better with their mothers…
Please, is that scientific evidence with which to create legislature?
I got royally screwed out of one of the most important and precious events of my life. I always wanted a family, and found the greatest joy in my children and once upon a time, a loving wife that was affectionate and happy. Sad thing is, too many years of Hollywood inspired trash ultimately hammered her down to thinking she was doing herself a disservice by being a wife and mother. She had a great career, a new car, a loving husband and children. A man willing to rush to her side at the slightest hint of trouble, and yet she just couldnt resist the temptation of an old high school boyfriend from 25 years ago contacting her on Facebook. Suddenly, due to my being “in the way” of her plans, I became her monster, her evil; I was the wall that kept her within the confines of marriage and she hated me for that.
But the state says shes the better parent, I found myself having to suddenly validate and substantiate my involvement with my children to a court of strangers, and had no money for a defense lawyer due to exhorbitant spending on my wifes part. Keep in mind you cant strangle a spouse into keeping their spending habits in check..
Every state issued Standard Possession Order, should be completely scrapped, and each case taken on a case by case basis. But of course, thats too much work for these megalomanics we have as judges, so why not just draft a one size fits all piece of legislation that incidently promotes a precedence of men being the villain.

Well-loved. Like or Dislike: Thumb up 22 Thumb down 1
M. May 3, 2012 at 10:33

Vickie, a man knows how to respect; an asshole does not. That is the difference. If you were a man, of course you would not respect: you ‘d be an asshole as most women are. Women do not know anything about respect: they mix it up with weakness. They also mix up strength with violence: they cannot tell the difference between a strong and respectful guy and an asshole.

Like or Dislike: Thumb up 7 Thumb down 1
NG85 August 1, 2012 at 23:46

Excellent post! All my life I thought it was just me who was unable to have happy, healthy relationships with women – As I get older I realize it isn’t just me.

The part of your article that really spoke to me was seeing how a S/O’s parents are. My last relationship was before I took the red pill. This girl and I had been together a couple years, and after she graduated college she began talking more and more about moving in together and getting married. I wasn’t opposed, per se, but it’s not something I wanted to do. There was just something bugging me about the thought.

I’m glad we broke up when we did, though. Looking bad at it now, I could only see the potential for doom in my life. With this being my longest relationship I was basically lost and relying on her to guide me – She wore the pants. Then I got closer to her family, and realized how MESSED UP they were. Her father was apparently very verbally and physically abusive, and she’d go from hating him to worshipping him. I noticed this dynamic in our relationship – If we got too close she’d try and fuck things up, and if she pushed me away too much she’d be sweet and innocent again. It also didn’t help matters that a lot of people said I reminded them of him. Her mother, on the other hand, was a housewife who outsourced all her home duties to maids and cleaning services. She spent her days either sleeping or going shopping. She also neglected my ex as a child and pretty much had no hand in raising her. Had I been married to this girl, there’s no doubt that she would act a lot like her mother, since that’s the most prominent example of what a mother is in her life, and if we had children she’d most likely ignore and neglect them. Her parents had also been on the brink of divorce for 15 years, and basically lived like strangers in the same house. Yeah, I didn’t want that…

I’m glad I discovered MGTOW when I was about 24, and young enough to avoid the marriage trap. I’ve given up any hope of being married to a Western woman, and I’ve even sworn off pretty much all relationships, since I don’t see Western women as being anything more than a warm hole with nothing else to offer myself or society.

Like or Dislike: Thumb up 6 Thumb down 0
Bill January 13, 2013 at 06:22

Mastedon – I agree. Been there and done that. The legal system in this country will totally favor the woman. Get married, have kids and you are screwed. Get an IRON CLAD prenup, including splitting kids 50/50. Do not marry a woman who is not bringing something to the table, other than her anatomy.

Like or Dislike: Thumb up 2 Thumb down 1
Alexander October 23, 2013 at 09:15

I’m glad to read this. I am deaf, and I have been pining for love with a good woman.

I know now, there are no ‘good’ women anymore. They do not respect us, thus they do not deserve us. We’ll stay independent, and single, happy and having FUN with our own hobbies!

Too bad, though, it would be been great to build a family. But that’s out of the picture for most of us. Instead, I know the next best thing; FleshLight, and perhaps, one day, if I can hope to afford it, a RealGirl, to have fun with.

I laughs at these women and their moronic stupidities… they are NOT my equal, they are just children playing games because they brainwashed each other for so long they’re deluded and living in illusions that bears no relationships to reality. They have only themselves to blame. Ha ha ha ha ha!

Like or Dislike: Thumb up 1 Thumb down 0
Anthony November 3, 2013 at 01:12

The reality is there are no good women left, especially by the time you reached 40 like I have (43). I have never been married, have had chances, let others slip away and other reasons I can’t really explain.

I am Black and I don’t date Black women primarily because of how my own mother and sister behave, along with Black women in general they are not to be married or even have sex with as they are the most irresponsible women in America hands down.

My only option is to date/marry a woman not from this country, who rejects much of our “modern” culture and has traditional values. When Western women hear that, before their heads explode, they call you a loser and the women less than/weak.

The truth is about this is correct, its what I call soft eugenics as you say population control. This is what Margaret Sanger had in mind not only for the Black population but also Whites and others she and her ilk consider beneath her.

Good Luck to those men married to contempted filled White women and those who married irresponsible Black women, you need to read this blog post.

Like or Dislike: Thumb up 0 Thumb down 0
MSimon November 4, 2013 at 02:30

May I suggest “The Taming Of The Shrew”? The final scene says it all:

http://viooz.co/movies/9264-the-taming-of-the-shrew-1967.html

Like or Dislike: Thumb up 0 Thumb down 0

Leave a Comment

{ 9 trackbacks }

Previous post:

Next post: